An old art… not yet lost.
Thursday, March 4th, 2010My Gramma was an amazing woman. She was a crafter extraordinaire, she could make anything you could possibly dream of (including the most delicious crepes you can possibly imagine!) She was a knitter, she crocheted, she was a seamstress, a potter. She knew how to cross stitch, embroider, weave. You name it, she could do it, and if she wanted to do it, but didn’t know how? She would get a book and learn how to do it.
Now that she’s been gone for a few years, I find myself wishing that I had have asked her more questions. In fact, just a few weeks ago, I was trying to figure out how to sew pleats on a costume for a friend of mine… knowing that there must be some simpler way to do it than the way I was doing it. I had the fleeting thought, “Oh, I’ll just give Gramma a call… she’ll know!”
While my Gramma taught me a lot of things, and I mean a lot, she did not teach me embroidery. My mom used to cross stitch, and I know how to do that (my mom taught me), it was never really and truly an interest at the time. Which means that I never asked her about it. Which means that now that she’s gone, I’m in the place of figuring it out myself.
The internet is truly a wonderful thing. You can google pretty much anything. The internet, however, does not watch you as you make those first few stitches… it does not put it’s hand on yours to guide you through the faltering routine until you pick up the rhythm on your own.
Last weekend the kids and I set out to learn how to embroider. I did have a very basic knowledge, years of watching my mom cross stitch was still stuck in the back of my brain…
It’s interesting, I thought that the hooligans, mine and Rachel’s, aged from 3 to (almost) 8, would fiddle around and play with it a bit, lose interest, and go do what hooligans do… in our house that means doing their level best to drive me insane.
They amazed me. Not only were they patient waiting for their turn to have needles threaded, they stuck with the project for hours. Literally, hours.
It’s amazing how you can give a child a challenge, offer no expectations and just leave them to it, what they will accomplish! They each decided on their own designs, and we simply drew it on the muslin (for the older girls) mesh fabric (for the younger kids). They chose their own colours, I gave a brief tutorial on back stitching, promised that I would thread all needles, and they were off!
A brief interlude to watch a movie (embroidering all the time), a small break to eat dinner, and they persevered until it was time for bed.
I simply can’t believe how much fun they had doing such a simple thing! An art that has been around for thousands of years. The simple act of taking needle and thread to draw on fabric.
And while those first halting stitches are secured on the fabric, while we listen, while we calm to make them smaller and neater, they are learning an art. They are learning to persevere. They are learning the joy that comes with making something from your own two hands. They are learning patience. They are learning that while they are small, they are very very capable. They are learning a craft that they can pass down to their own children one day.
Last weekend was not just about learning to embroider. It was so very much more than that.





















